2024 note: this is one of a series of posts from my old personal blog (2007—2010) that I’ve resurrected. More info here.


My mother has been in a nursing home for a couple of years now, in the advanced stages of Parkinson’s disease. We visit on weekends.

Sadly, the aging elevators at the nursing home often behave in a way that mirrors some residents:

Me: Up, please.

[No elevator comes.]

Me: Up…

[Still no elevator.]

Me: Up!

[Both elevators open.]

Me (stepping in): Sigh… Second floor, please.

[Doors open at the third floor…]

Then a few hours later, leaving the building:

Me (entering passcode on the elevator security control): 12345, down please.

[No elevator…]

Me: 12345, down please.

[Elevator opens, one of the nurses steps out.]

Me: First floor, please.

[Door closes, then nothing.]

Me (after flicking elevator on / off switch): First floor, please.

[Elevator stops on first floor, but only the rear service door opens.]

Me (stepping out, welling up with tears at how bad the situation is getting): See you next week…